Are You Living Your Best Life?

To refuse to accept limitations is to walk up and grab your passion by the hand taking it with you as you go, instead of leaving it and waiting for it to follow!  

Read More

Words And Actions

Do we really want honesty? There is a real rawness when we are brave enough to really express our true thoughts/intentions. Most say they are open to hear authentic feedback from their partners, family, or co-workers, but I call BS on 90% of the population who make this request.

Read More

Hard Work

When I was younger, I used to think that relationships should be easy. I thought if you had to put a lot of effort or work into the relationship it meant this may not be the right person for me, whereas if it were the right relationship, everything would just come naturally. There would never be arguments, right? That’s what I use to think, and then I grew up and learned a thing called reality!

Read More

Add A Little Spice

There comes a point in all relationships that we decide we want to add a little spice to kick things up a notch.

Read More

Is This Your Future?

This is likely the reason online dating has been sweeping the globe. What used to be taboo and unheard of is now the new norm.

Read More

Webs of Entanglement

The experience is in your body, in your mind, and maybe even in your dreams. Could this be a metaphor of how a person feels after being fucked over by someone they thought cared?         

Read More

Passing The Buck

This is the hardest question to answer sometimes and one the most uncomfortable parts of a first date or even second date. No one ever wants to say, “Can I get the check, please?”

Read More

What Is Love?

“A Night at the Roxbury” was one of the funniest movies ever thanks to actors Will Ferrell and Chris Kattan. The classic, iconic scene of the brothers’ voguing and bopping their heads in rhythmic fashion at the bar when this song starts playing was one of many favorite scene’s. Talk about confidence! These characters BELIEVED they oozed coolness or at least thought ….”Damn we look cool!” LOL….LOVED IT!...Imagine how cool we could be if we just threw caution to the wind and didn’t care what anybody thought about us, including but not limited to how we dance, how we look, how we speak, or how we dress. The message here is simple: be whoever the FUCK (Free Uninhibited Cool Kid©Dear238) you are…. And love every head bopping, off beat second of it! 

Read More