It’s not okay…. No really… it’s not!
If you’re reading this it’s safe to assume you’re human. Do you recall your infancy months or first 2-3 years of being a toddler? Probably not, but if you do please know you are definitely not in the norm!
As a baby and young child; the following habits like: burping, drooling, farting, drooling, pulling wacky tackies out your nose then inserting in mouth…..are, as gross as the last one is, is actually considered a normal process of growing. Did you know boogers build a stronger immune system! Seriously, no lie. There is research on this grotesque habit with a slew of information on the benefits of eating your boogers. YUKE!!
The point I’m trying to make is this - there is a grace period for certain habits and babies/children will always have a free pass. On the other hand, this does not apply to well-bodied adults. Habits are acceptable, expected and even down right cute most of the time when our children have these uncontrollable acts. Dear238’rs this is NOT in any form or fashion cute when adults display these habits! Now, once you’ve reached a pinnacle point in a relationship the habit(s) you have should be discussed especially if they are outside your control. Why? Because success starts with transparency no matter what aspect of your life this applies to. Including taking the bad with the good. The embarrassing acts with the noble acts, and lack of finance with the abundance of finance. If you’re upfront from the beginning then having to explain later will never be an issue. Let’s delve a little deeper into this subject shall we?
We are all adults and Dear238’rs post consist of straight talk. Exposing barriers that keep US from finding love is our mission. What you read below is two specific habits I wanted to address. Draw your conclusions. Agree or disagree if you must, today we’ll look at how certain bodily functions can be major turn offs when first getting to know someone and possibly even after.
The point is we all have a grimy little habit that we do without thinking or knowing how to control it. Did you pick up on a specific 5 letter word in this blog that may be sabotaging your dating success? The key word is…….. “HABIT!”
Dear238’rs habits are meant to be broken, corrected, eliminated, especially if it helps to lock in “not literally” the guy or gal of your dreams! Habits like drooling or farting cannot truly be controlled, but timing is everything and can make or break a potential suitor.
First, let’s focus on the habit of drooling, which can be VERY embarrassing after spending a sensual night with the person of interest to only leave saliva stains on their sheets. Dear238’s….this is not sexy or remotely cute! This topic is specifically referencing non-medical conditions. Wait; hold on a second. I’m very sympathetic to the drooler trust me because I’m one. Drooling can be very difficult to control. The drooler struggles when asleep to avoid this occurrence because nothing is worse than rolling over into a cold wet saliva soaked spot! The drooler who usually sleeps with a towel on their pillow can go without if their brave. Maybe this won’t apply to you, but if you’re tired of sleeping alone then read on and find something to wipe away the ickiness.
Secondly, flatulence is a normal part of life. We all do it and if you don’t please schedule an appointment to see a doctor because something is wrong. Call it by its medical terminology or any other slang name associated with this act. Either way there is a time and place for cutting the cheese, breaking wind, etc., yet it is something that you both will eventually need to be comfortable with around each other because it WILL happen.
Thanks for reading Habits: Nothing’s too Hard too Blog About. What habit do you want to control? Comment below.
Dear238 Quick Tip: Do a quick check for a bed towel that is not stuck together. Drool a.k.a. saliva is 98% water and does not cause this phenomenon. On the other hand dried semen on a towel will be stuck together. **Special Quick Fact: semen consist of over 200 proteins along with vitamins, minerals, calcium, fructose, and potassium……hit the brakes…….did you know this????…WTF! It sounds nutritious, like it really might be good for you! And that’s all I’m saying about that.