What Is Your Type?
I Googled “Type 1, Type 2 Type 3 Traits” the other day out of curiosity. All I could find on the web centered on actual personality traits and did not provide the kind of answer I sought. The one where a person’s “real” way of treating others shows up through the kind of encounters they have. This the debut of the ©Dear238.com Types. Disclaimer: This should in no way be used to diagnose your partner or potential dating interest. Dear238.com does not staff medical or mental health providers.
This is only my perspective based on life experiences with partners in the past. This may not be YOUR experience, so agree or disagree and if by chance, you can relate to being one of these types… and want to share; comment below and share your ©Dear238.com Type.
There seem to be three types based on the way men and women think and live. Keep reading to decide for yourself what type best describes you! Type 1, Type 2 or Type 3 you decided.
Type 1: They are uninhibited, live by hormones rather than solely relying on cerebral guidance. They don’t give a shit what anyone else thinks because they are the captain responsible for their ship. Type 1s will look at you straight in the eye and say, “Hell yea I did it, and I’m going to keep doing it until I can’t do it anymore.” Are they fearless, free thinkers, socially disconnected and living life without regret? Yes, no or maybe because we all have something that scares the shit out of us. What makes a Type 1 different from all the rest is their ability to convince others they don’t care. Type 1s are like a tornado: They come in and out of your life fast and leave behind chaos and destruction. There is always a warning to get out, move on, but for reasons only you can explain, decide to wait out the storm to only have to live with the aftermath. It’s not known if Type 1s are able to ever fully commit to another. Prime example: this is the uncle who never married, lives with his “longtime girlfriend” and spends every other weekend with his side babe. Type 1s are the people that most wish they could secretly be like without the negative implications. Why is that…by the way? I’m sure this comes as no surprise: Men are never called out when they sleep with multiple partners. They are not blacklisted, whispered about behind their backs and called hurtful names, yet society (yes, that’s every one of us) gives the guy a pat upon the back. “Well done son! You’re a real lady’s man!” Women, on the other hand, always get a bad rap. A woman who displays this reckless behavior not only receives criticism from men, but women too!
Type 2: This is what I consider the “norm” if normal exists. This is the category that 65% of us probably fall into. Take your typical guy or gal. They are as honest as people can be in this digital day and age now in the 21st century where you can be whoever you want to be behind the computer screen. Type 2s, for the most part, are not just in it to hit it. Generally, their intentions are admirable because they long for commitment and a true companionship. They not only long for commitment they are actually capable of providing it. You could have a long-term relationship with a Type 2. They may hurt your feelings, in order not to hurt your feelings. For example, one person has a serious crush the other one realizes this, but doesn’t reciprocate those same feelings, so instead of misleading them, they either tell them they’re not interested or show up with their bae arm-in-arm. Type 2s are by no means perfect. They may wander one or two times, either through daydreaming or having an actual encounter, but they feel guilty for their infidelity.
Type 3: These folks are loners who are perfectly content with being by their self. This could be for multiple reasons. They may have been ruined by a Type 1 or 2 that they officially swore off ever being with anyone. Type 3s may also be very shy people that feel awkward in the dating world. Without the aid of friends to support them in this arena Type 3s may prefer quiet evenings at home, nature outings, etc.; they are low-key and possibly believe dating is way overrated and often not worth the effort that goes into maintaining it. Sex is not a necessity; in fact, they can go years and never desire the touch of another. If you find yourself having a crush on a Type 3, you may have your work cut out for you. They usually have a wall built up around their heart. You will have to take things very slowly, and hopefully you will be able to succeed in your pursuit of this ©Dear238.com Type.
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Dear238 Quick Tip: All Types have the potential to switch numbers. Just because you may be one ©Dear238.com Type does not mean you will remain that type. Change encompasses a huge spectrum and can occur when the individual has an epiphany for good or bad reasons. Everyone’s story is different.